Compatibility Consultation
The Ayurvedic
Compatibility Consultation is a vital guide for
understanding your relationship in greater depth. Knowing
you and your partners’ compatibility and tendencies will
allow you to identify aggravating factors in the
relationship. With this awareness you will gain techniques
to resolve conflict and maintain harmony in your
relationship.
By determining your
dominant doshas and gaining knowledge of each other’s true
nature, you can understand why the same conflicts arise over
and over again. Why does your partner enjoy hobbies that
are fast paced and dangerous but has very little interest in
sex? Why does your wife love spicy foods when it increases
her bad temper?
A common example -
partnerships which involve both people as dominant vata
types tend to have many arguments but no conclusions. There
is short term but fierce anger, and rash decisions are made
in heat of moment which are often regretted later. Pitta
types have more long term anger.
By identifying the
aggravating factors and knowing how to resolve differences,
you can compromise and move past the situation without
dwelling on it. Another clear example is a vata male and
kapha female in a relationship. The male prefers to have sex
just before going to sleep. His libido is naturally in this
rhythm because of his constitution. Yet his partner’s libido
is active in the mornings. She doesn’t feel remotely sexual
in the evening. So instead of the problem spiraling into a
misunderstanding, they will find a compromise and create a
situation that works for both of them.
Understanding your
partner’s innate nature will help you to overcome these
obstacles and transform your partnership into one of
compromise and harmony, rather than blame and aggravation.
If you and your
partner would like to:
then an Ayurvedic
Compatibility Consultation is an eye-opening way of
developing a deeper level of awareness and empathy for your
partner.
Most partners who have
this consultation feel more stable and understanding of
their partner’s tendencies and nature. There is more
confidence that obstacles can be overcome.
Choosing right
partner
In some cases you may
not have made a long term commitment to a partner because
you are:
